How Childhood Trauma Shapes Your Choice of Partner

You think you're falling in love. In reality, you're recognizing something familiar.

You choose a partner. And you believe it's a free choice. That it's chemistry. That it's fate. But if you look closely, you're choosing the same person over and over again. Different faces. Different names. The same script.

If your dad was distant, you gravitate toward distant men. If your mom was controlling, you pick women who smother you. If your childhood was chaos, you can't function without drama. If you were devalued, you find someone who devalues you. And you think: why am I here again?